Motherhood on Ice is a new book by Marcia C. Inhorn…
And she blames men for women freezing their eggs because they cannot find suitable partners. An article by Miranda Bryant has been published in The Guardian, and it has become a target of jokes online.
Meanwhile, in academic circles, egg freezing was – and still is – often seen as a calculated act by women to hack their fertility by prolonging it through medical intervention, “as if this was something very intentional that women were doing in this kind of planned, almost feminist, narrative”, says Inhorn.
Have you noticed how there is an epidemic of people that are not confortable in their skin and want to cheat the biology. Brest implants and other plastic surgery operations have long been marketed to insecure women but these days we even have men undergoing surgery to make themselves higher, and internet freekazoids suggesting men vasectomy to prevent themselves from making some bitch pregnant, and paying child support. People need to get a grip and control over their own biology, they need to be comfortable in their skin.
More than 150 interviews later, her research – the largest anthropological study to date into why women freeze their eggs – concluded that it was men, not women, who were the problem.
It is the men, apparently… women cannot find a man, men blamed…
Inhorn’s research found that women freezing their eggs tended to be in their late 30s, successful high-earning professionals (in both the US and the UK, where it’s not usually covered by the NHS, it is prohibitively expensive for most) and primarily single. “They were one after another women who had been successful in their career and at the same time had been looking for a partner, but they just couldn’t find that reproductive partner.”
Freezing your eggs is prohibitively expensive and the women want an equally earning man. The latter are rare and do not want some 30 plus, career woman. They want a hot 20 year old.
Some women resorted to toning down their educational achievements on their dating app profiles to avoid putting men off, while others hired professionals to help them with their profiles.
Men, generally do not care about your education level. They care if you have a nice ass, and good pair of tits to play with. Some men could be concerned about you being high maintenance but those blokes care too much in my opinion.
While the women may have been socialised to believe they could have a career, a family and an equal relationship, she found the men had not necessarily been raised the same way.
Women have been told by feminists and simps that they can have it all. This is not the case, life is about making sacrifices if you want it all.
Then there were those who simply didn’t want to. “I learned the term ‘the Peter Pans’, you know the men who will never grow up. They may be educated men who have money and so forth, but they want to play around and have a lot of fun and may not partner at all, or may not partner well into their 40s and 50s,” she says.
These guys can have all the gold diggers in town, why should they settle for you? Especially in Anglo countries, where divorces are financially very damaging for men.
“A lot of the people I went to graduate school with didn’t end up partnering, or they partnered in marriages that weren’t really very happy,”
I heard an interesting statistic that only 14% of marriages are actually happy.
