I guess you failed…

Every now and then I see on social media some transsexual making a tantrum in shop or restaurant over the vendor or barista failing to identify the gender of the former.

I am however thinking that if people call you a dude, you kinda failed in your transition. I have assumed a transition is a process at which end you switch from one sex to another. And while the latter is biologically impossible, the goal of the transition is to resemble the opposite sex as much as possible.

If then you get misgendered, it is your fault, not the fault of the unfortunate person calling you “sir”. You are just an ugly guy in a drag, this is how you are perceived. You must do better…