Helen Lewis at the Atlantic thinks nobody should care about how many dudes a woman has slept with…

So what the article amounts to, is men these days need to remain obedient simps and not exchange notes on what constitutes a good woman. Otherwise the feminists will try to cajole you into obedience by cries of misogyny. The article in fact glorifies cuckolds such as the streamer, Destiny.
The manosphere exists because men need to be educated on the dangers of dating women. Women need not worry, there will always be willing simps that would marry a town bicycle. Mia Khalifa was already married twice.
The manosphere does not exist to save the simps, the latter are welcome to marry a town bicycle if they think body count does not matter, and see for themselves what happens. Also Helen Lewis probably has a high body count if she writes articles such as the above.
